it's snowing. it looks as though the sky is reaching down, trying to absorb the very city. i hope i get to see it before it turns to sludge.

i remember this feeling.

this is power.

how very intriguing.

jason: I STILL need to apply for my new one
shivery: yeah, wouldn't be a bad idea.
shivery: it's always a good idea to have one on hand
shivery: you never know when you're going to need to bust away from the fuzz
jason: right. best to have six or seven of em
shivery: totally.
shivery: including one with a non-western alphabet.
shivery: i favor ukranian.
shivery: no cold war commie stigma, still totally incomprehensible
jason: yes, just to confuse people
shivery: gotta cover your tracks, man.
shivery: the stuff we get up to?
shivery: for sure.
jason: no rest for the wicked. Only asylum.

so, to explain.

i'm having one of those days where everything just feels wrong. the subways were working against me, i was out of rhythm with the pedestrian ballet and as such was nearly knocked into the street a few times this morning. everything i say is falling like an anvil to the floor, and my patience with the world at large is nearing an end. i'm snappish and having difficulty carrying on conversations.

today, this body, this persona do not fit into this life. and to be perfectly honest, it's irritating the living hell out of me.

again, stay tuned. perhaps this mood will burn off with the wind.

i am in such a vile temper this morning, there aren't really even words to describe it.

please stand by while shivery stops loathing everything on the face of this planet.

we will return to our regularly scheduled programming shortly.

it would seem that, unbenownst to me, somewhere along the line i learned how to play a pretty wicked game of pool.

it's good to keep surprising yourself.

dig our prandial masterpiece.

i was attempting to give y'all one more installment of the guide to new york before everyone in this country shuts down and chains themselves to their stoves in the pursuit of what i consider to be the best holiday of all time: thanksgiving. a day whose entire point is to sit around with the people you love, eat a lot of food, get really drunk, and think about what makes you happy. what you're thankful for.

• my friends, who know without fail when to just sit back and let me operate on auto-witter and when to step in and call me on my bullshit. who are always on call to mop up a broken heart and always up for a night of debauchery and debate. they challenge me, surprise me, amaze me, make me crazy and make me proud. if the mettle of a man (or woman) can be discerned by the company (s)he keeps, then it's no wonder that my fits of self-loathing have grown so much fewer and further between; if i am to be judged by my friends, then i must be beautiful, brilliant, kind, caring, talented, fierce, strong and worldly to deserve so many people with those qualities in my life.  tribe, i salute thee, and i am thankful that you have all become a part of my life. i don't know what i'd do without you.
• my family. for all my grousing about my family, for all the frustration and anger that i frequently vent about my blood-clan, i am thankful for them, because without them i would not be the girl i am today. their largely hands-off method of parenting has left me fiercely independent and tough as nails, because i've always been expected to take care of my day-to-day myself. but without fail, when the shit really goes down, i know they're there for me. and that makes it easier to go out and risk myself to do what i want, because i know that i've got the big guns sitting in the wings to help me with damage control. family, i salute thee! personally, i think you did a pretty good job with me, for all my faults and issues.
• my dreams, and the fact that there are people other than myself who believe in them.
• my voice.
• myself, because i'm pretty fond of who i've become. and because i'm pretty proud of the life i've carved out for myself, warts and all.
• whiskey.

there's more, of course, but those are the big ones.

happy thanksgiving, kids. may yours be warm, trauma-free, and full of a buffy marathon.

as i type, fairy lights are being hung by the cubicles with care by sally sue (in a desperate attempt to raise morale a little for the holidays)...the mistletoe mafia is brewing its wiles to launch the party of the season...and therein lies today's conundrum. we promised one of the guests that we would find the best and brightest of all holiday songs to provide our background noise, which means: time to concoct the mix. here's what i'm plotting so far:
santa baby-eartha kitt/you're a mean one, mr. grinch/yuleman vs. the anti-claus-the bobs/christmas wrapping-the waitresses/jingle bells-brian setzer orchestra/santa claus is coming to town-jackson five (though that might be just a little too horrible)/christmas time is here-a charlie brown christmas/jingle bells-ray charles (please god, let me find this)/what are you doing new year's-rufus wainwright...

...and that's where my suggestions taper off. help me out here, kids! what songs would you add to my (not-so) fabulous christmas mix?

i'm having some trouble thinking of anything to say today, so until my brain comes back online, here's what i look like when i'm actually happy.

(thanks for the pic, jason!)

update: it has been brought to my attention that the 'when i'm happy' tag implies that i am not happy right now. which is a TRAGIC LIE! life is good, liebchens. i'm just having a brain stall.

that is all!